Category Archives: Culture

#20 Protecting Our Kids From Predators_Youth Protection

#20 Protecting Our Kids From Predators_Youth Protection

This episode made me sad to have to deliver, but this is a subject that is important to talk about. Better now than after another child is abused. Violations of youth protection result in pain that can last a lifetime. It’s important to talk about the pain that’s already happened, but it is equally important to talk about making it harder for this kind of abuse to happen in the future.

Today’s kids are tomorrow’s victims – unless we do something to prevent that from happening.

In this episode, we reveal the system that we put in place to prevent abuse in our Club. Learn how we do it, and share what best practices you may be aware of.

In this Episode

[01:08] Framing my perspetive on Youth Protection

[01:38] Assumptions: Predators are on the Hunt

[03:06] Predators are (and have been) among us

[03:46] Our 4-step process for protection

[03:54] Step 1: Creating and being clear about the rules

[04:22] Two-deep leadership

[04:48] Use the school system

[05:13] Darkness to Light

[06:21] Leverage other clubs

[7:02] Mandatory items for all coaches and adult volunteers who work with children

[07:24] National Centers for Safety Initiatives (NCSI)

[08:24] Getting arrested vs creating a record

[10:48] After the offense

[12:21] Background checks alone are not enough

[14:06] Step 2: Communicate often with parents and coaches

[16:08] Counseling players safely

[18:41] Two-way communication

[20:04] Step 3: Reinforcing the rules as often as possible

[21:58] Step 4: Review the rules each year during annual planning

[23:14] Prevent the news from happening (Summary)

Resources Mentioned in this Podcast

  • “National Center For Safety Initiatives – Protecting Vulnerable Populations.” National Center For Safety Initiatives – Protecting Vulnerable Populations,
  • “Homepage.” Darkness to Light,
#14 – Bundle of Sticks – Playing Together to Achieve Team Synergies

#14 – Bundle of Sticks – Playing Together to Achieve Team Synergies

Sticks in a bundle can’t be broken but sticks taken singly can be easily broken. Same applies to people. One of the most potent superpowers any team has is Unity. In this episode, we talk about creating unity on the field, amplifying it at home, and using Unity as a measure of a game’s effectiveness. Sometimes,… Continue Reading

#13 – Talent is Only Part of Success in Sports

#13 – Talent is Only Part of Success in Sports

Inspired by an article written by Fred Bowen of the Washington Post titled “Athletic Ability is just a part of success in sports,” we hear what 5 high school coaches are looking for from players beyond athletic ability. We also hear about what Tom Statham from Manchester United’s Youth program has to say about essentially… Continue Reading

#2 – Entertainment vs Development Culture

Culture affects everything about the youth sports experience. In this episode, we will explore the two primary cultures found in youth sports: the Entertainment Culture and the Development Culture. Which one you chose or create depends on the outcomes you want. In an Entertainment culture, attention centers around the game. Practices are preparation for games. Games… Continue Reading

Welcome to The Soccer Sidelines!

Welcome to The Soccer Sidelines!

In this first episode, we introduce you to the podcast. The Soccer Sidelines is about bringing parents, players, and coaches together around the most important aspects of the youth sports experience – and we don’t mean winning games. Youth sports allows us to create thousands of teachable moments in the context of a 15-year window… Continue Reading